You keep on chasing me for an answer? You should aware that a relationship is not a individual matter. It is a two people matter. You keep on saying that I need to change my attitude, if I did not commit then you will go and our relationship will over.
Why you can treat this issue like this? Apparently in your mindset, I am the one who has to change only in order to continue this relationship. Perhaps you are over confident to yourself. Do you ever think you should change your attitude as well? Your uncontrolled bad temper and "breakup" phrase are the obstacles of our relationship continuation. I told you many times before that we should discuss in a proper manner before fighting and quarreling. This is an adult way to resolve problem. Did you listen? If we are going to get married one day, is it going to have such consequences again and again?
I think both of us have to admit that we are not compatible enough. You and I are totally in a conflict perspective. Nobody is willing to tolerate on this. Actually in our previous fight, the conclusion was both of us have to put effort to make the relationship move further. However, at the end, we are still wander in the same point. We feel that we put effort, but in reality we are not. Now you are still insisting to get the answer from me. This is not an issue of YES or NO. I think it is the way of resolving problem. Of course we couldn't avoid quarrel and conflict, but how do we resolve it? Discuss in a proper manner! You just couldn't make it. What to do?
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